I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. Encourage your lover to slap your butt.
Diclaimer: the following advice reflects our kinks and likes but the principles can be used for any fantasy you want to talk dirty about. Basically he enjoys to watch me being fucked by a hung guy. I want him to be horny thinking of me cumming over and over again, but I also love to know that it does sting a little bit when I tell him that a bigger dick can turn me into an obedient little slut and make me cum instantly. First thing first. You should always talk to your husband and find out exactly what it is he would love to hear from you. This goes both ways.